reverse psychology

It has been suggested to me to use reverse psychology on my husband. To act like I am getting along just fine without him.
My fear is that if I act that way, he will think I am just fine without him...and he, in turn, will be ok with getting along without me. Which is, of course, NOT what I want to happen.
I understand that for him to want me, he needs to miss me.
Ugh. I miss him...doesnt he miss me?
I'm lonely.
I also realize that I probably look obsessed, but it's because my other half (i believe when you marry and consummate that marriage, you become one) is separated from me.
And I love my husband very much!